Like last night, as I was making dinner, my kindergartener asked for “A turkey sandwich on that big bread.” Big bread meaning the thick oatmeal bread I had bought at the bakery.
I looked at him out of the corner of my eye to see if he had suddenly decided to prank me or something.
Because he doesn’t usually vary his diet very much. Peanut butter sandwiches are his favorite: thin slices of honey wheat with the crust off and only smooth peanut butter will do.
Sure, he’ll eat pizza and pasta, grilled cheese, yogurt, almost every fruit, and the occasional chicken nugget, plus almost any breakfast food(and any and all things dessert-like). Enough variety that I can pretend to myself that he isn’t really a picky eater.
Though somewhere shoved down in my mind, I have a list of what he does and does not eat. Turkey sandwiches on thick hearty bread is not on that list.
But I made him the sandwich and handed it to him, thinking that if he took a half bite and refused it, I could chalk it up to progress and eat the sandwich as my own meal.
To my surprise, he ate the whole thing.
And I wanted to do a dorky little dance all around the kitchen and blast across facebook “My kindergartener ate a turkey sandwich!”
Then I realized that the majority of my facebook friends would be like uh… yeah… WHY are you so excited about that? It’s a sandwich. I make my kids eat whatever I put in front of them.
But there are some of us who find joy in small triumphs. Because we know it’s not as easy as just making our kids do it.
Tell me, what small thing has made you smile lately?

Well, our kindergartener made several advances in the last couple of weeks.
- He now eats pasta and rice as of 3 weeks ago. 8 months ago. He wouldn’t try anything outside of his formula, biscuits, and white bread. So this is HUGE.
- He finally wore goggles for the first time when he went swimming last week. He’s been swimming for almost two years now and he always refused to wear goggles, which we didn’t like very much because his eyes got really red from him opening his eyes underwater. He let us help him put on the goggles with zero fuss, my wife and I just looked at one another when it happened. We were both pretty shocked to say the least.
We look forward to many more mini triumphs. =)
Thanks for sharing!!
soo many little things make me smile. I suspect, given your circle of friends…you’d have a LOT of knowing smiles and nodding heads.
Nice post, Shell.